KevinAnderson

My best so far

My aim is to win a Grand Slam. Especially having made the 2017 US Open and 2018 Wimbledon finals. They were my proudest moments so far in tennis. As a kid, you dream about winning a Grand Slam. So to have the chance to compete for two was huge. Unfortunately, in the Wimbledon final I fell one match short, against one of the best players of all time in Novak Djokovic. But it was a great two weeks, where I managed to beat Roger Federer and set a record for the longest semi-final at a Grand Slam, I overcame new challenges and I learned a lot that will serve me well in the future.

“MY DAD ALWAYS SAID YOU ONLY FAIL IF YOU DON’T GIVE EVERYTHING. IF YOU WORK AS HARD AS YOU CAN AND DO EVERYTHING IN YOUR POWER, YOU’RE A SUCCESS. EVEN IF YOU DON’T ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS.”

My pro tips

My most important tip came from my parents – never be afraid of failure. You have to put yourself out there. My dad always said you only fail if you don’t give everything. If you work as hard as you can and do everything in your power, you’re a success. Even if you don’t achieve your goals. There are always disappointments and you learn to deal with them. But if you give everything, you’ll be proud of your achievements.

There’s a great quote that echoes that idea. It’s from John Wooden, the legendary UCLA basketball coach. “Success is a peace of mind which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you made the effort to become the best of which you are capable.”

I firmly believe that when you do all the little things right, when you take the focus away from just winning or losing, then the winning or losing often takes care of itself.

But losing a match is always tough. There’s so much emotion, you work so hard. Ultimately you need to put things in perspective, it’s only a tennis match at the end of the day. My wife’s a great help. She understands I’m disappointed, but she picks me up and motivates me to try and do better next time.

Staying grounded

My wife’s traveled with me for the last five years. That’s a really big help. Having her on the road helps ground me. It can be tough living out of suitcases, being away from home, so having my companion with me really helps. This year we’ve added a dog to our entourage. She helps keep things in perspective. She’s excited to see me – win or lose.

Hobbies help keep you grounded too. I’m into cricket, golf and playing the guitar. I’m South African and we’ve got a very proud cricketing heritage. So I love getting behind the Proteas (national team). I’ve also played golf for years. It’s something I share with my wife and her whole family. Her dad’s actually a pro golfer. I picked up the guitar about five years ago. As a tennis player you’re waiting around a lot. So I travel with a small guitar and it really helps me.